How to become the best version of yourself
Life becomes a lot more beautiful when you are constantly evolving. A meaningful life is a blessing and it pushes you towards excellence. We need to evolve, transform and push the human race forward. We all want to become the best version of ourselves and give our best gift to the world.
Here are 5 tips to help you become the best version of yourself in 2021.
1. Self-authoring : Write about your goodness but also be critical about your demerits. You could write about your past so that you can accept it with comfort and analyze your weaknesses and your strengths. Self-authoring is like performing a personalized SWOT analysis with a futuristic vision in mind. It makes your purpose clearer.
2. Accept your past : Do not make your past an excuse for the demerits which are stopping you from getting ahead in the present. Accepting your past is the best thing makes it easier to work on your future. If you are the kind of person who was just getting by, was weak emotionally and physically, may be, it is the time you accept your reality and start working on your health.
Start hitting the gym and start meditating. Make yourself food, complete your chores and get your life in order. Too much chaos is disrupting and disintegrating your body and soul.
3. Be mindful : Accept your past and be present in the current moment because this is where you will be building your future. Being mindful will also make you be grateful about every experience you have.
The paradox is we only get more when we are grateful for what we already have. This is the secret and this has been the secret for everyone who made it from rags to riches and nobody to somebody.
4. Perception is selection : Do not let your emotions control you. When you become conscientious about your choices, you can change your perception and each time you change your perception, you choose to become a different human being.
Perception changes the game. It turns the zero-sum game to positive sum game and it makes your life fresh and innovative at every corner. Let the ebbs and flows come, you know how to tackle them because you know how to perceive things differently.
5. Choose happiness : Choose happiness. Find your anchor and work towards excellence. Try different things and that will be the easiest way to find your north star, your true calling and that is how you will be more fulfilled and thrilled about everything that life has to offer to you.
